“I like the idea of home exchanging, but my partner’s not sure”: 5 Talking Points to help Convince them

So, you’ve stumbled upon the idea of home swapping, and something about it just made sense. The thought of trading homes with someone in a different city, experiencing a new place like a true local, and saving money in the process — it all sounds pretty great, right?

But then you bring it up with your partner, and, well, they’re not exactly on board.

Yet..

Maybe they’re nervous about the idea of strangers staying in your home, or they’re unsure if this whole home exchange thing is really a good fit for you both. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. 

It’s actually a pretty common reaction. Home exchange is a bit different from booking a hotel or renting an Airbnb. It’s more personal, more connected, and yes, it can feel a little daunting at first.

Here’s how you can help ease your partner's concerns and get them excited about home exchange!

1. Encourage your partner to meet other members of the community

One of the unexpected perks of home exchanging is the community that comes with it. You’re not just trading homes with strangers - you’re becoming part of a network of people who share your love of exploring the world in a more personal way. If your partner is feeling nervous or hesitant, encourage them to connect with other members of the community.

We organise regular meet-ups between our members in the main cities where we are, such as Paris and London. Make sure to sign up to our newsletter to find out when the next meet up will be!

Alternatively, your partner can always speak directly with one of our ambassadors who can answer any lingering questions or concerns they may have. Just let us know, and we’ll put you in touch.

Connect with members and explore a new city

2. Choose a nearby destination to keep the experience familiar and comfortable

If your partner is hesitant about exchanging with someone from, or travelling to, another country, why not start off with a staycation? It's a great way to explore nearby areas while offering a fresh perspective on your own surroundings. Plus, it’s a perfect introduction to home exchanging without venturing too far from home.

Experience the beauty that's right on your doorstep!

3. Book a stay without necessary hosting

We understand it can be daunting to let someone stay in your home, especially when you and your partner haven’t yet experienced staying in a Keybento member’s home.

That’s why hosting isn’t required to enjoy a stay. This way, your partner can experience firsthand what it’s like to stay in a Keybento member’s home and see the trust that exists within the community.

4. Arrange a video call between your partner and the host or guest

This way, your partner will feel more involved in the whole process. A video call is a great opportunity to ask any remaining questions and for your partner to get a better sense of who they’ll be swapping with. It helps to build trust and ensures that both sides are comfortable with the arrangement.

5. Show your partner how your savings can fund the experiences that matter

One thing that home exchanging does really well is cutting down on travel expenses. Unlike traditional travel, where you’re locked into hefty hotel or rental costs, home exchange lets your family explore new places without emptying your wallet.

This way you can travel smart, save money, and use that budget for what really matters to you - exploring new places with city guides, enjoying a home chef, booking cooking classes for your kids, or maybe a wine tasting for just the two of you!

Enjoy a local wine tasting while you're little ones are being looked after

Traveling is all about sharing new experiences, creating lasting memories, and stepping out of your comfort zone — even if it’s just a little.

If your partner is hesitant, that's perfectly okay. It’s important for both of you to feel comfortable with the idea of home exchanging. That’s why we’ve provided these 5 tips to help!

Our members are also more than happy to welcome your family and share their experiences with your partner. Simply let us know, and we’ll make the connection.